THE STEREOTYPES – ‘MEN NEED TO BE IN CONTROL’ (THE PILL – INTRODUCTION)
Who controls the Pill? There is no doubt that it is in the woman’s hands, but men appear to have just as many worries about the health risks as women. However, these worries are often not expressed very loudly, but may be heard as asides: ‘How can you tell if she is taking it?’ Or reported by their partners: ‘Those clever doctors may let you down again.’ ‘They don’t tell you about all the side-effects.’ ‘Have you ever read the pack insert?’ There is rarely an opportunity to answer such questions adequately and they ask for a considerable degree of trust from the man. A psychosexual doctor may be prompted to ask why he feels he has to answer questions. Are they really questions or a request that the man should not be asked to put so much trust in something unnatural and a drug? One caring husband said, T wish I could take it instead of her.’ Again, asking men to rank effectiveness, the Pill came below condoms in their perception.
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