MALE PROBLEMS – DAMAGE TO THE FETUS
Tuesday, April 7th, 2009Fears of damage to the fetus by either partner may result in sexual withdrawal. There may be an enforced period of abstinence due to threatened miscarriage or risk of dislodging a long-awaited pregnancy. Sexual dysfunction in the male such as impotence or premature ejaculation may result and may be further exacerbated after delivery when contraception is needed and sheaths are considered the method of choice. Alternatively, fear of damage to the fetus may be given as an acceptable excuse by the man who lacks sexual desire for his wife’s burgeoning and, to him, unattractive body.
The male fantasy of a mother’s purity and sexual innocence is not confined to those whose cultural and religious upbringing has held the Virgin Mother as an object of worship, but is an acknowledged phase of early childhood development. The first awareness by the man of his partner’s becoming a mother can reawaken this fantasy and be an unconscious reason for sexual withdrawal.
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